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How to Make Your Woman Scream in Bed Out of Pleasure

INTERNAL HUMAN ANATOMY:

Well have you ever heard your friends raving about their sexual skills to you? Have you heard them say that they can please their woman beyond her imagination? And have you heard them say that their women have screamed so much out of pleasure that their neighbors came up to their home to complain? Well if you HAVE heard this before and have wondered how they were able to achieve this, then you are reading the right article because I am going to let out some female pleasure tips which will enable you to blow her mind off and she will be craving to you for more. For those of you'll who haven't heard that women can scream beyond imagination like that, then again you are reading the right article, because THEY SO DO SCREAM. I have achieved this pleasure of hearing my woman scream and so can you. And if you are a silent love maker, that let me tell you, chuck that thought! MAKE NOISE and see how FREE and MORE in LOVE you will feel. So once you read this and start acting as per the article, don't hold me responsible for the noise levels of your bedroom reaching your neighbors! So lets start.

How to Make Your Woman Scream in Bed Out of Pleasure

Now many couples I have spoken to or say have mingled with have a problem, they have silent sex. Now this is something like you are ashamed of what you are doing. Many of these couples will be even married. Why can't they be proud of their love? But now there is another fact that men love VOCAL expression of love. Now a man gets to the heights of excitement when his woman screams, or expresses her pleasure to him. It makes him feel great and superior and this comes from experience. So let me place it in a better way. A man gets his sexual pleasures heightened when he hears his woman's VOCAL ENTHUSIASM.

But many a times as I have mentioned before, couples want to or have to or JUST DO engage in silent love making. This makes a guy feel like he is making love to a start fish. Now lets a get better response in the bedroom than just a start fish. Mind you, when a woman lays down on bed and lets the man do his bit and does her bit, the man often starts to believe that she is BORED. But now if you sit back and think of it the way I do, why can't you place yourself in her place? Think! What if she is actually BORED? So when you guys have a problem like this, when your woman is lying like that looking all bored and not as enthusiastic as you while having sex, then maybe she IS bored and its definitely NOT her fault that she is bored, it takes to two to clap.

Now from personal experience I can say that I love it when my woman screams and makes HELL lot of noise when engaged in sexual activity with me. I really really love the experience and the satisfaction and the pleasure I get from it all. Now lets all face it, unless she is faking it, I REALLY HAVE to be GREAT in bed to achieve this every single time we make love, unless we both decide a a silent and slow procession which at times is considered as romantic. Now some of you reading this must be really very experienced and might be thinking "oh come on this is BS, women are just shy so they are not going to scream no matter how hard they come." Well I would like to show you the real world my friend because you are living in a make believe world if you are thinking so. But I will not even say that you are completely wrong. There DO exist girls who are the silent, but breathe hard and fast during an orgasm. They DO react but not in the way that excites you, the SCREAMS, they do feel equally turned on and excited as you, but they wont scream.

But a man who is great at bed can make any woman SCREAM in bed no matter how silent type she is. I refer myself to as a great guy on bed because just last night my woman told me that I get the wildness out of her. This is NOT something that you cannot do. This is not something GREAT that I do. So NOW you know that YOU CAN do it too to your woman. Now lets summarize the fact that a woman is lying there, breathing and reacting surely to you and your heat but not enough to get you over board excited. Now your work is to get her to SCREAM. Now you have to believe that she WANTS to scream, just she is HOLDING herself BACK. Now she might think that sexually and physically she is showing enough reactions to let you know that she is loving the experience with you, but the fact that she is holding back her screams say that she is not experiencing TOTAL orgasm. That is, she doesn't know that she is CAPABLE of far MORE than what orgasm she is experiencing. In fact the truth can be that she may not be experiencing a true orgasm at all. Now this is sad when a woman thinks she's having an orgasm but ACTUALLY IS NOT. Very sad. I have read about such women who actually think they are having an orgasm but actually they are just experiencing a hell lot of excitement and they are probably thinking to themselves that oh they are getting an orgasm. A female orgasm is no where as evident as a male ejaculation. So they live under the belief that they are having an orgasm, but truth is they aren't. Maybe it never occurred to them that probably they are missing our on something, something bigger, something they are so capable of experiencing but have NOT experienced yet. This will be their belief until someone is going to get them to blow their minds of and they experience the TRUE orgasm. And then they will think to themselves, "oh so that's what an orgasm feels like!

Now till this happens they don't realize what they have been missing out all this time. Now coming to the major point. The difference between true orgasm and 'thought to be' orgasm is that these women didn't really experience longer sex or some specific technique. It was just the magic of screaming! Yes you got me right, the screaming while making love with such women made them experience something they didn't even know of. Now let that one sink in for a moment. You can say that it wasn't SCREAMING DIRECTLY that was doing the magic. It was the act of letting themselves go just enough, and this allows them to relax and let it go and it was their release of inhibitions to make that noise that silently allowed them to release the inhibitions of experiencing full and complete orgasm like never before.

For a woman, a screaming orgasm is like a continuous, self-perpetuating process and is something like a feedback loop. Allowing them to make noise as they orgasm makes them come MUCH harder MUCH MUCH harder than they ever have and than they ever have imagined, which makes them scream harder, and which makes them come harder yet again. But unfortunately you cannot get a girl to have such an experience with you just by saying "okay, now I want you to scream and yell while we are having sex." No, it doesn't work that way. Now to really get her to let go, I mean COMPLETELY let go, you have to let her feel ENTIRELY comfortable with you. You have to let her feel comfortable in surrendering her body to you. This is a big deal if you didn't know. This is the reason why sex is truly such an amazingly intimate experience for a woman or at least it can be. But they cant experience this by themselves either. They need an expert in loving so that they can completely surrender their bodies to control. This is a difficult thing for men to understand. Let me give you an example here. Have you ever been to some place with your friend, some place where it is VERY dangerous, and you know that you couldn't have gone there alone, as you wouldn't really have the guts to? It is something like that for a woman to completely surrender herself to you during sex, and that is why its SUCH a big deal for her, and it has to be for you to if you really love your woman. Now the example above is not exactly the same as letting a woman surrender herself completely to you, but it is enough to get you to know what it feels like. At least you have an idea now. Now a woman cannot go to this 'dangerous' place in sex herself. She feels scared, and she needs you to take her by the hand there. Oh this sounds so romantic, doesn't it? Now you should feel really proud if you actually do get the chance to take her by the hand and take her to places she has never been before. I hope you are understanding what I am saying here. I know it is very confusing, but you WILL surely understand. Its more of art than science this human anatomy and behavior.

As far as I know, the best way to get to know about this art is to learn complete sexual mastery, which are available to you online. In fact I have taken it myself, and I read a book, and heard audios of the sex expert before actually coming to write about it here. You can also do the same. Now coming back to the topic, let me warn you that such high rates of pleasure and intimacy can be very very scary for her. So you have to first do anything possible for you to put her to ease with the whole following process. MUSIC is a good way to start with. Its a simple tip, but it is very very useful. Those of you who don't know what music can do, then there are two most important things Music does, which are:-

  • If you play it loud, then it might give her bit of a cover for the noise she can make, its easier to make noise in a loud room than in a silent one. It makes her more comfortable in making noise and experimenting with the noise levels without bothering about someone else in the house hearing.
  • Music affects our emotions. Especially it affects a woman's emotions. And then its through her emotions that get turned on with music that she will eventually surrender herself to you with so much of trust.
Now if you didn't know music was so powerful, then you ought to know such tiny things in sex which make SUCH A LOT of difference. Now you can have a genuine question here, you can ask, what sort of music should you play. Now certainly you cant play rock music to turn her emotions on, even though it will cover her noise making too well. But certainly rock is something that is not going to help you here. So if you are a rock fan and you read music helps a woman come harder and you play rock music while having sex, then that will be suicidal. We are presently working on her comfort, so you have to play what she LIKES, and what she thinks and feels is SEXY. Now once you have the right music playing then is the turn to add her voice to it. She might already be breathing heavy, or making little noises, whimpers, but what we have to get her to do is give her something to say. I am being very specific in this case because this is something that works great with me and my lady, that is taking the name. You have to ask her to take your name. Now this is not a 100% technique and it may not really work. Now see I'll give you an example, my full name is Robb Edward Engel, now I don'ttt really fancy my lady calling me "oh Robb" while making love, but when she says "oh Eddy" or "Oh ed yeah", it just is too hot and this excites both of us. So its for you to find out what you want her to say that will turn the two of you ON. But this is all because the idea is to get her vocal cords to play while she engages in love like never before, when she reaches the heights of excitement and when she is at the edge of having an orgasm. Now when you tell her to say your name, you will be shocked that if she really is all excited then she might just SCREAM it out. Now once she does that on her own, then that's it you have shown her how good it feels to let the scream out when she is all too excited.

Shouting of name like this is an intimacy builder. It is a nice, bonding thing for her to associate you and the sound of your name coming out of her own mouth, to her most profound pleasure. The other reason is that it gets her out of her "self" and into thoughts of "you" which will help her to reach the point of surrender that I was talking about earlier. For a woman to reach the peak of her pleasure she will have to make it "YOUR DECISION" in her mind. She is not going to reach the peak with her own permission. So putting your name in sometimes does the trick. You have entered into her mind at a very crucial stage where she needs your permission to blow off her mind. But don't force her to say your name, if she thinks its weird then let it be any sound that she wants to let out. But Name works well for many and it does in my case.

Now done with the sound, we are going to move further into an advanced territory. The one most valuable way to let her unleash her deepest desires and her banshee is by eliminating your own internal shyness. You cannot afford to show her you are shy. So start eradicating your sexual shyness with her. Look, I am not saying you are at fault, nobody is completely free of his/her own insecurities. Hence this is more difficult than it actually sounds. You will not be able to put off your shyness just in one go. Now a fact comes here that women have a very very strong intuition. They can sense when men feel uncomfortable even before men themselves know about it. Now lets be fair here, if you are asking your woman to be completely free of inhibitions and you yourself go into the bed with a bunch full of shyness or insecurities, then this is just asking for an awful lot. Just be careful because anything you do to tip her off as you yourself are not 100% comfortable doing it, will always act against you.

Now you may ask what might tip her off. Nervous laughter, anything funny or angry you say about her, frustration when something goes different than you expected, try to calm down. She shouldn't be the receiver of all these emotions. But the biggest tip off is when you try to say or do something to make you look cool, then that is the biggest tip off for her. She will not take a minute to realize that you are insecure about her. Now how to change this about yourself. The biggest thing you can do to actually BE cool is be AUTHENTIC. There is another thing that you should do is express PASSION. Very few men have the capability of showing true passion and lose themselves in the act of love making. Those who are able to do that, win instant love and passion in return. You can fake thins kind of a thing but remember AUTHENTICITY is everything in love. Because by this at the end of the day what you end up doing is winning her sexual trust. When she sees that you are coming to her with absolutely no filters then her body will respond to you in ways you cant and never have imagined. What does it take to be authentic with a woman? GUTS. That's your answer. You need to have guts to be truly authentic with your woman. If you follow a few simple steps from this sort of a book I have read, this shouldn't be a tough task. It won't be long before your till now shy woman is screaming her head off during sex.

Now let me warn you, some women love screaming "oh no please stop" "stop stop stop", and this is actually good news. Its even better than screaming your name out. This is because it allows a woman to surrender complete permission to you. But (chuckles) it can also be bad. If she shouts 'stop' out so loudly, your neighbors might get concerned and call the cops. So that's why calling out your name is safer. Even shouting "oh my god" is good and is very common. Also make sure that the REAL NO (that mean YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO STOP) has another code word because if she has been shouting "oh no stop stop" then you will not know if she actually wants you to STOP, also you need to be sure if she is consensual in the entire process.

Now this was all from me in this one. Let me tell you, you just learned that making a woman engage in noisy love making is actually a good way to get her to orgasm the best that she ever has and also it can just be her first orgasm itself.

Thank You for reading...

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The Other in Fiction - Creating Wonderfully Wicked Villains

INTERNAL HUMAN ANATOMY:

Characters with psychological problems and quirks have appeared as long as people have told stories. For most of recorded history, madness has been the work of angry gods and mischievous demons, and in many developing countries people still believe that psychological problems are caused by demonic possession, witchcraft, and vengeful gods.

The Other in Fiction - Creating Wonderfully Wicked Villains

Though research has shown us that psychological disorders have more mundane causes like brain chemistry and stress, most of us are still subtly influenced by generations of superstition. We see people with mental illness as being extremely different from us, and sometimes even as deserving of their problems and the consequences of those problems.

Otherness Alterity, or the concept of Other, is the inability to relate to someone or something we perceive as radically, insurmountably different from ourselves. Most of us have trouble knowing how to react to someone who behaves strangely, or whose behavior or ideas scare us. We say, "He's out of his mind,""He's lost his mind," or "He's acting crazy." Sometimes we even experience parts of ourselves as Other. We look back on choices we've made and try to make sense of them by saying things like "I wasn't myself" or "I don't know why I did it."

The Other appears in two common forms in fiction. In the first, the Other is a part of a character who can't control her behavior, often because she's possessed or mentally ill. In the second, the individual herself is Other, a villain so packed with evil Shadow characteristics that we can feel good about seeing her destroyed.

The Other in Fiction The Other tends to be easy to pick out in fiction, because it usually has one or more of the following three qualities.

1. The Other is a Monster The villain who achieves Monster status has been imbued with so many Shadow qualities that he is no longer viewed as human, redeemable, or even worth saving. Killing him isn't about killing another human being--it's destroying something even God would high-five you for taking down. I argue elsewhere that Monsters are less scary than more complex, empathetic villains, if for no other reason than they're predictable: they're always going to make the "wrong" decision, the one that makes it easy to hate them.

The Monster is a receptacle for the things we hate or fear about ourselves, both individually and as a species, things we'd like to strip out of ourselves and destroy. In action and horror stories, the Monster is often identified by dark clothes, weapons emblazoned with animals or symbols associated with evil (snakes, dragons), and a blasé approach to killing.

2. The Other Has Incredibly Obvious Psychological Problems In many ways, psychosis and Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID, formerly Multiple Personality Disorder or MPD) have replaced stories about possession in the fictional media. Rather than being possessed by demons, we're possessed by personalities or disorders.

In stories about possession, the demon rather than the person is responsible for the horrific acts committed; when the demon is exorcised, the person deserves no punishment and can resume a normal life. In stories about mental illness, love often serves the same purpose, saving the character from her crimes and redeeming her soul.

3. The Other has a Childish, One-Track Mind The Other is usually portrayed as thinking in overly simplistic words and phrases. Sometimes this is because he has an Incredibly Obvious Psychological Problem, and sometimes it's because he's a Monster. In extreme cases, his thought processes echo nothing so much as an elementary school child. The sentences become short and choppy and make the Other sound like he's about to get a cake he's been looking forward to.

Horror films sometimes use this innocence and simplicity to emphasize how awful the atrocities in question are. The idea that Freddy Krueger's mother was a nun shows us how far astray he's gone, and the ominous Nightmare on Elm Street nursery rhyme does the same thing (1, 2, Freddy's coming for you; 3, 4, better lock your door...) A little girl screaming obscenities has shocked generations of Exorcist fans. And in Saw, there's something unsettling about Jigsaw on the tricycle. If you're going to take this approach, just be careful to come up with something original. The tricycle worked because it hadn't been done to death.

The Purpose of the Other This Other serves a purpose, and that purpose is to assure us that we're nothing like it.

Mental illness and Monstrosity are often clumped together for two reasons. First, mental illness can be scary, and we want to believe we would never behave that way, no matter what. Second, we use psychological terms to try to understand cruelty and hatred, and it's much easier for the average person to equate "sociopath" with "monster" than to accept that circumstances contributed to that person's behavior...and could conceivably have done the same to us if we'd shared them.

Research like the Stanford Prison Experiment and Milgram's Obedience Study has shown that circumstance is the most important influence on behavior, especially cruelty. In both studies, average people hurt others (or thought they did) thanks to opportunities and pressures offered by the environment. In the commentary on the 2004 remake of The Amityville Horror, actor Ryan Reynolds remarks how upsetting it was to realize that he was capable of hitting a child--because he spontaneously did it while in character.

There is no excuse for the atrocities committed by men like Hitler, Stalin, and Hussein, but when placed in the context of their lives, their behaviors make some sense and are even predicable. Would you or I do the same things if we'd grown up in exactly the same situations? I certainly hope not, but we might have had a lot more in common with those "monsters" than we'd like to think.

The truth is, in real life nobody is pure Monster, and the Other is a lot less Other than most of us would like to think.

Behind the Disorders Sometimes Associated with the Other Psychosis People who develop psychoses--that is, people who lose contact with the reality most people are experiencing--haven't developed a strange new personality; instead, they've lost the ability to differentiate between the same fantasies and realities we all experience. We all have inner voices that say things like "That was a stupid thing to do" or "Eating all those cookies is going to make you fat!" People who "hear voices" are hearing the exact same thing, but an imbalance in brain chemistry makes it impossible for them to tell these are internal thoughts, not external voices. When they take antipsychotic medications, the drugs re-balance their brain chemicals so their perceptions of reality are more like everyone else's. They still hear the voices, they just know--the same way you and I do--that they're coming from inside.

Most often associated with psychosis are schizophrenia and the manic phase of bipolar I disorder, though some people develop other psychotic disorders or experience psychosis as a result of drug use.

Dissociative Identity Disorder Psychological professionals believe that Dissociative Identity Disorder is caused by trauma so severe that to cope the person dissociates or splinters that experience off from the rest. Splintering protects the birth or core personality from the terrible things that happened. It's the same process that protects us from other painful memories, like those associated with bad car accidents.

Fictional characters with DID usually harbor a savage killer. The truth is, people with DID harbor killers no more than the rest of us. That doesn't mean people with DID never harbor killers, only that "normal" people do, too. Surviving abuse teaches some people to abuse others, but that's true even without a psychological disorder.

In fact, the only psychological disorder that is associated with increased violence is substance use and abuse--drinking and doing drugs. And even people without ongoing substance abuse problems do things they later wish they hadn't when they've been under the influence.

Revisiting the One Track Mind and the Incredibly Obvious Problem Since we've discussed the Monster pretty extensively, let's briefly revisit the other two categories of Other and talk about ways to freshen them up.

The Childish One-Track-Mind Most people don't think like children unless they actually are children. People sometimes regress, or act more child-like when they're overwhelmed, but they always revert to grownup thought processes as the stressors pass or they adapt.

Killers in particular are going to think like grownups. Unless she's incredibly disorganized (in which case she's going to be fairly easy to catch) she has to be clever enough to outwit your hero or heroine. And even people who kill, for whatever reason, think things besides killing. They go to the grocery store. They watch Gray's Anatomy (pun intended). They get the flu, look at mail-order catalogs, and clean their homes. Some better than others.

This normalcy is what makes people who do terrible things scary, because we can relate to everyday behaviors. The less Other the villain is, the scarier he's likely to be. In any case, you're probably not going to be able to pick out someone who kills by their speech patterns (assuming they're not constantly talking about gore), what they buy at the supermarket (assuming they're not buying cement or fertilizer), or how their houses are organized (assuming there aren't any dead people around).

Writers can and do make the One-Track-Mind Other work when they take a unique approach. For example, in the Supernatural episode The Benders, one of the brothers is abducted by a weird family that likes to hunt and kill people for sport. The family keeps trophies--like wind chimes made of human bones and jars of teeth--in the house.

Two things really made the episode work. First, it didn't take itself too seriously. Second, the brothers normally hunt supernatural creatures like demons, ghosts, and other monsters; the punch line of the episode is that people can be a lot scarier than monsters. And nobody ever suggested they were mentally ill--just weird.

The Incredibly Obvious Problem Only about 5% or 6% of the general population has a psychological disorder that's obvious enough that you might notice it in the grocery store. And though you might notice a disorder if you were living in the same house or room with it, you'd probably be surprised how many people hide their problems so well that even their families have no idea how bad their symptoms are.

People who have psychological problems are just like anyone else, even the ones who take medications. Some people need to take insulin for diabetes, or use inhalers when they have asthma attacks; likewise, sometimes the delicate balance of chemicals and processes in the brain need a little help from modern medicine.

Full Circle The Other is powerful if you're willing to explore what makes her seem so different from you. What makes someone or something seem Other to you? What's so inconceivable that it would be scary if you knew how to relate?

Got it?

Good. Now go write about it.


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